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Okay, so it has been more than a few days.... I am not sure where the months are going.
I wanted to write this down before I forget because to me, it was unexpected but at the same time, significant.
Yesterday we were coming back from shopping and stopped for ice-cream. I was outside with two of the boys and Brynn waiting for the ice-cream when a mom and her Asian daughter came to our table; apparantly she had been in line with Doug and after striking up a conversation with her, told her we were outside. Brynn's first comment when she saw the girl in her mom's arms... "She like me!!!" and boy was she excited when she said it. Brynn and I talk all the time about the eye colors in our family and how her eyes are brown like Caleb's (and grandma's and grandpa's), how her other two brothers both have blue, and how her mommy and daddy have hazel but that is the extent of (well other than her fascination with all eyebrows) her comments about her appearance. Obviously she is aware. Then, the never-shy Brynn introduced herself and her brothers and then the ice-cream came and that became her sole focus.
She also in the past two weeks on several occasions has, out of the blue, commented "miss Mama." In China I would cringe when the guides would call me "Mama" because even though that is the word for mother in Chinese, I knew that to Brynn, "Mama" was her foster mom, who she lived with from the day she was found until 22 months later, the day we adopted her. I didn't want Brynn to think I was trying to replace her. In our house I am "Mommy" and her foster mom is still "Mama" and her picture is on our refrigerator. I wonder sometimes what Brynn is thinking of all this.
Here are a few pictures from last month. Haven't taken this month's off the camera yet. Evan is trying to teach Brynn to golf two of the pictures. She prefers the scooter. I'm hoping she will teach Evan that the potty is a good thing! One is her "helping" me cook a cake and the other is her enjoying ice-cream at Price's birthday party. I've already planned her party for the end of May. We will be in Disney World on her actual birthday and I just can't wait any longer... poor girl has seen everybody else have one and she wants her turn (we adopted her a week after her 2nd birthday)!!!